We’ve all heard the folklore of a genie in a bottle. You rub the bottle, and suddenly—poof—you get three wishes. And if we’re being honest, most of us would try to outsmart the system. “My first wish? A thousand more wishes!” Now before anyone gasps at the comparison, stay with me. I’m not comparing Jesus[…]
Spiritual Growth
God tells us plainly, “Do not despise these small beginnings” (Zechariah 4:10). Yet if we’re honest, that’s often exactly what we do. When progress feels slow, when prayers seem unanswered, when momentum doesn’t match the vision God placed in our hearts, frustration creeps in. We begin to question the process, the timing, and sometimes even[…]
We live in a world that constantly tells us that position is what matters. Titles, platforms, recognition, influence, these are the things our culture celebrates. So without even realizing it, many of us begin pursuing a position instead of faithfully serving in the place God has created for us. We hustle for visibility, chase affirmation,[…]
A new year always brings a new opportunity—a fresh start to reevaluate what needs to stay and what needs to go. So let me ask you: what old things do you need to take out of your life this year? What new thoughts, habits, and disciplines do you need to embrace to become who God[…]
There’s nothing quite like the joyful chaos of Christmas morning. Wrapping paper flies, laughter fills the air, and little hands tear open boxes with wide-eyed excitement. They can’t wait to see what’s inside, and the real joy comes not just from receiving the gift, but from discovering and using what’s been given. But imagine how[…]
Question: Dr. Tony, I need your help. My husband is swiftly losing his faith in God because his favorite football team is constantly losing. Every time his team loses, he loses more of his faith. How can I help him look at it differently, and how can I get him not to watch so much[…]
Thanksgiving has always been one of my favorite holidays! It’s a time filled with family, football, and, of course, plenty of food—especially my famous sweet potato pie (trust me, it’s a slice of heaven). But as we gather around tables tomorrow, I want to ask you a deeper question: Are you truly a thankful person?[…]
There is a secret ingredient that builds community faster than anything else: admitting our mistakes. But why in the world would anybody risk honesty? Because it is worth the risk! There are four benefits of being honest about our errors, our feelings, our faults, and our fears. The Bible says in James 5:16, “Therefore, confess your[…]
The root of all indecision is fear. Whether it’s fear of failure, rejection, or not being good enough, fear can paralyze us and keep us stuck in the same place, replaying “what if” scenarios instead of walking in faith. We’ve all been there—afraid of making mistakes and embarrassing ourselves, worried we won’t finish what we[…]
When was the last time you had a good belly laugh—the kind that comes from so deep within that you can’t catch your breath, your eyes start watering, and your face hurts from smiling so much? You know that kind of laugh—the one that bubbles up uncontrollably until you’re laughing simply because laughing feels that[…]
I want to share something with you today that comes from over 30 years of working closely with people in my community. Through all those years, one truth has stood out more than anything else—it’s not our circumstances that define us; it’s our mentality. The difference between a victor and a victim is not what[…]
There’s one thing I know for sure—we all must live in the reality of the unexpected. None of us can predict what tomorrow will bring, what challenges might arise, or what blessings may unfold before the day ends. Life is beautifully unpredictable, yet sometimes painfully so. Maybe you know someone who went to the doctor[…]
